Some People Believe That Once a Woman Has Children, She Should Give Up Her Job and Devote All Her Time to Caring for Them. This Is Because They Are the Ones Who Are Able to Provide the Best Care for Their Children. Others Believe That a Working ...

The ancient talks of women staying at home and have the men financially supporting them has long been buried under this modernization earth. Women of todays have the choices of choosing whether to pursued their dream jobs or devote their life caring of offspring. Despite the fact that to most such scenario has long come to a conclusion, this statement is still being debated over the years. For many still doubt if a fulltime housewife beats working mother or vice-versa. However, mothers are believed to able to harmonize both their joy of life – family and work. Therefore, in this essay, we will discuss if a woman can be judged to be a good mother whether she stays at home or work.  

It is undeniable that being a parent brings a big change in life, for as much as you love doing something, like your careers, those would seem less important compare to your flesh and blood-children. However, important things isn’t necessary everything in life. For example, if you are a nurse who loves and have used to vow to devote your life caring for the sick and needs, but during your months of maternity has left you to decide whether to quit your job to be a full time mother or not. To some people, they may call your decision as disaster, but to some, your decision is regarded as saint. The question is, what should we think of women who leave their accomplished careers and be a full time mother? I think the best answer is not to judge them. If they want to give up all their working time bearing all the child-rearing responsibilities, it is their choice.

But, being a full time housewife and a mother is not an easy task. They need to run the household, keep the house sparkles, look after the kids, cook three meals a day and do lots of shopping. When running a family, they have to do it as if they are running a small business. They have to be careful with the finances provided by bread winner, setting up accounts to make sure that they do not over spend and only spend on... [continues]

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