Richard Justin Ganacias
What is Single Parenthood?
A single parent family is a family living together in a home atmosphere where only one parent is present with one or more children. This is in opposition to a family with two parents living in the home. A married couple can also live in a single family setting for extended periods of time if one of the spouses travels for long periods of time or is imprisoned for instance. In brief, it is any family with one or more children where one of the parents has to serve a double parental role of mother and father for an extended or permanent period. Causes of Single Parenthood
A family is said to be the foundation of the society. When you say a family, it must have a father, mother and their children. But how About Single Parenting? Single parenting is the term we used for a person building a family or raising a child without marriage or without the present of husband or wife. Anyone can be a single parent depending upon the relationship you established with your partner. Single parenting can also be caused by early pregnancy.
These kinds of single parents are very common to teenagers, who become rebellious from their parents. They felt neglected by their parents not only of their needs but their love and attention that they expected from them. Because of this feeling of being neglected, teenagers learn to find and look for someone who can fulfills their needs for love and affection that commonly resulted of early pregnancies from their boyfriends.
Single parenting can be also caused by the death of the partner. They said that life is too short and no one knows your death. Single parents who are widow usually had a hard time of accepting their faith. Single parenting caused by death underwent to some stages like anger, denial, depression, bargaining, and the last is acceptance. These stages are also common to divorce single parents.
Single parenting caused by adoption of a child.
Legal adoption is widely accepted these days. Most single man and women believed that singleness are their destiny but most them are only caused by their pursued career and disregard the idea of being married and having their own children until they reach maturity and become a good provider. Single men and woman opt to adopt to feel more complete. Single parents who have adopted usually feel that their life is incomplete without a child, if there is no one you can share with it.
Single parenting is sometimes caused by divorce.
Single parents are very common to western countries where divorce is legal. If the court finds the marriage unsuitable and no hope for reconciliation between the couple, the court has no choice but to grant the divorce.
Effects of Single Parenthood
Positive Single Parenting Effects
Development of close bonds with parents can be one big positive effect of single parenting. Single parenting involves looking after the child's requirements alone, which amounts to a large time to be spent with the child. If the parent is successful in turning these moments into deep bonding sessions, it would create a permanent goodwill and strong relationship between the parent and the child.
Even non-custodial parents can use those rare occasions, when they are able to meet their child, to highlight the importance and need of having them in their life and vice-versa. Single parents, usually seek assistance from their relatives, friends, colleagues or neighbors to raise children all by themselves, especially babies and toddlers. This introduces community life to the child at a relatively early age and empowers them with the ability to socialize and understand people of various natures. This can make child development a smooth and an ideal process.
If a child is a teenage boy or a girl, they learn to shoulder their responsibilities at a young age, making them more mature and understanding. Moreover, if the parents have decided to...