It has not been a stroll in the park more like a steep climb up a mountain, but it is not something that I would give up no matter how hard it can get
Before the birth of my son I was a carefree, immature party girl without a care in the world. I remember spending my days shopping at the mall, not worry about spending too much money. Spending summer days at the beach, going to amusement parks and festivals. I remember drinking and dancing the nights away with my friends. I remember just shopping, partying and having a good time.
11 years ago, May 19, 1999 it all changed, I gave birth to my son Bradley. The day I went in to the hospital to give birth to him was a very exciting day, I checked into the hospital at 5:00 in the morning, they were going to induced me at 6:00 a.m. I remember laying there being so excited and just wanting him to be out already. They came in and hooked me up to the IV'S I went 6 hours without feeling any pain, but being so bored just laying there, then the doctor came in and broke my water at 12:00 p.m. and that is when I started wishing it would really all end, the pain was so bad I thought I was going to die, but it did not last long at 4:15 my baby boy was born and he was just perfect the little pain I had was worth it. When they put him in my arms he was so soft and warm. His eyes were open and so bright. I remember crying and thinking wow this is my son, and he is just perfect. His birth changed everything about me and my life. It was a very nice unexpected gift. Having my son was the best thing to happen to me, it changed my life for the good.
After his birth I grew up stopped parting and took on the responsibility that was gifted to me. His birth made life harder,...