The definition of sexual addiction or also known as sex addiction is theoretical model which aim to explain some forms of hyper sexuality whereby it includes their sexual urges, attitudes or thoughts. Usually, one will be appear as extreme in sexual activity in terms of the frequency or feel out one’s control.
However, hyper sexuality is often to be correlated with addictive or obsessive personalities, escapism, psychological disorders, low self-esteem, self-destructive behaviour, lowered sexual inhibitions and behavioural conditioning. Addiction is a persistent, compulsive dependence on a behaviour or substance. The term has been partially replaced by the word dependence for substance abuse. Addiction has been extended, however, to include mood-altering behaviours or activities.
“It is estimated that three to six percent of the general U.S. population suffers from some form of addictive sexual behaviour with self or others. However, the current lack of a universally recognizable clinical diagnosis which combined with a dearth of publicly funded research and ongoing cultural shame and stigmas regarding sexual disorders in general is more likely prevent many more individuals from identifying the problem and seeking help” (Weiss, R. 2012)
Apart from that, in the absence of sexual acts or orgasm, sex addicts tend to abuse their sexual fantasies which most likely to create the intense, insensibility feelings that temporarily lead to emotional detachment and disconnection from life stressors. Research suggests that these feelings, often described as being in “the bubble” or “a trance,” are the result of the neurochemical process induced by a fantasy-based release of adrenaline, dopamine, endorphins and serotonin, not dissimilar to a “fight or flight” response (Weiss, R. 2012)
Times after time, the hidden fantasies, rituals and acts of the sexually addicted person can lead to a double life of lies to self and others, manipulation, splitting, rationalization and denial (Weiss, R. 2012). In an order to fulfil the unmet emotional needs, sex addicts abused the sexual fantasy and sexual acts by using these defences for the sake of escaping their core feelings of low self-worth, fears of abandonment and depression
Furthermore, usually most of the sex addicts tend to commits sex crime such as rape, sexual harassment, or sexual abuse. It is happened due to the uncontrolled sex drive of a person and their curiosity towards experiencing in by themselves is getting higher. According to the reports and statistics issued by the Royal Malaysian Police, a total 11,493 cases of reported rapes took place over the period of 7 years from 2000 to 2006, In the year 2000, a total of 1,217 rape cases were reported. Two years later, the reported cases increased to a total of 1,431. Then in the year 2005, 1,895 new cases of rapes were reported. In 2006, a whopping 2,435 rape cases have been reported, an increase of about 540 cases in comparison to the previous year (Vigneswaran Veeramuthu, 2008; Royal Malaysian Police (RMP), 2006). The purpose of this research paper have been made is to show that how sexual addictions could transform us into a silent killer to ourselves, community, religion, and country. The research paper discusses the characteristics of sexual addicts, this assignment also shows that the consequences and effects of sexual addiction in terms of health, relationship, and community to a person, individuals and other peoples as well. By the same token, in this paper will discuss more on how to overcome the problems of being sexual addicts before it turns critically that could harm their health, and also endanger other people that closed to them, family and close persons.
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