Since the nature of marriage has been changing over time, with people marrying for love and companionship rather than mere social need for reproduction, should marriage be a traditionally man-and-woman only club, or should it admit same-sex members? Even if this was not a new issue, in the United States, gay marriage entered the scene in 1996 when several gay couples from Hawaii sued for the right to marry legally. Since 1996, there has been a series of developments in the gay movement¡¦s struggle. While some gains have been obtained at the state level, the federal government has maintained an anti-gay conservative position.
The institution of gay marriage is the subject of my paper. I talk about the ethical problem of recognizing marriage, or other forms of unions, as a civil right for homosexual couples, the context in which this issue is being raised. To do so, this work will be divided into three parts. The first part provides a brief history of same-sex unions to prove that in the modern West gays and lesbians have been denied full acceptance. Taking into consideration the federal level first, the second part illustrates the legal context that gay couples face in the United States. The, I focus on the state level, and I try to point out the different opportunities provided by each state as clearly as possible. Finally, based on the impact that the various alternatives have on selected criteria, in the third part I draw a Criteria-Alternatives-Matrix to suggest the best solution to the problem. The history of same-sex marriage
Most, if not every, twenty-first century American considers marriage to be an institution for heterosexual couples. While many Americans have acknowledged and are willing to tolerate homosexual relationships, not so many of them consider these unions as marriages. In contrast, history and numerous documents serve as testimony that same-sex marriages or other same-sex unions were common in history. If not institutionalized, in some cultures homosexual unions were at least accepted. Same-sex unions have been demonized by Western society since the thirteenth century, while they were pretty common and tolerated in most other societies. The cultures taken into consideration are the classical Greek, Roman (pre-Christian and Christian), the attitude of the Roman Catholic and Greek Orthodox Churches during the Middle Ages, as well as the Native American society. After that, I proceed to the modern United States with the Boston Marriage and the roots of the gay marriage movement.
To draw this section of my work, the main source used is William N. Eskridge, Jr. and his ¡§The case for Same-Sex Marriage¡¨ (1996). If I use other sources, the citation appears in the text.
Classical Greece demonstrated a very deep interest in same-sex unions. Some of them were considered real marriages. The most interesting document to understand the Greek approach toward same-sex unions is Plato¡¦s Symposium, in which we find a real hymn to Love, with relationships between men at the center. In this work, he reports that the ideal Love, the purest one, is the love between two men, because they ¡§find pleasure in what is by nature stronger and more intelligent (as cited in Eskridge, 1996)¡¨.
The Symposium is thought to be the best example of how gay relationships were considered, at least in the Greek city-states. There is no proof of any law that prohibited homosexual unions. Actually documents show the existence of institutionalized...