Same Sex Adoption
“Adoption is not about finding children for families, it’s about finding families for children” (Joyce Maguire Pavao). Same sex marriages have led to controversies on the possibility of efficient parentage of such couples. Successfully and effectively taking care of children by couples of the same sex has always been doubted. To be more specific, most critics strongly fight against adoption of children by same sex partners. The negative perception is further acknowledged by the battles on legitimacy and legal processes in adopting children. Although at present times the adoption of children by same sex couples is legitimate and legal in the law of some countries, this process still faces opposition in society, human rights activities, and children affairs organizations. In some countries like Spain, Britain, Holland and Canada, these adoptions are legally permitted by the law contrary to other major countries in the world where its criticized and considered an abomination. As always, the main focus in this argument has been forgotten. The main concern should be the well being of the child, not the sexual preference of the parents. Growing up, a child should be subjected to as much love and attention as possible, as well as learning to comprehend right from wrong. If these things are being met, whether the parents of the child are a man and a woman, two men, or two woman, then who is to say that their relationship is a wrong atmosphere for a child to be in? In the United States, prospective same sex couples have been prohibited in some states for attempting to adopt children. This prohibition has been made possible either through denial of the right for adoption, banning adoption by unmarried couples or banning marriages by same sex. Presently legislatures in some states are debating on the legitimacy of the resolution to prohibit same sex couples from adopting children. Gender and moral development of a child are...
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