Islam: The Muslim Family
In this essay I will be looking at the Muslim family. I will be looking at what Islam teaches about the Muslim family and explaining the roles of all the members of the family. I will also be discussing why Muslim family is important for social and religious life. Furthermore, I will be giving my opinion in whether I think it is easy for young Muslims in Britain to be practising Islam. Family
The family is the bedrock, cradle of human civilisation. It is the foundation and basis of a Muslim society. The family is a scared institution. Islam teaches that family is not just the parents and children, but it also includes extended families such as grandparents, uncles, aunts, cousins etc. Before Islam was introduced, the men dominated the family and the women were mistreated. Men were the only ones who were allowed to inherit; women and children had no share. Some men would bury their baby daughters alive because they thought they brought shame on to their family, as is referred to in the Qu’ran
“And when the news of (the birth of) female (child) is brought to any of them, his face becomes dark, and he is filled within inward grief! He hides himself from the people because of the evil of that whereof he has been informed. Shall he keep her with dishonour or bury her in the earth? Certainly, evil is their decision.”
When Islam came it paid a great deal of attention to the establishment of strong families and protecting them from things that could harm them, and preserving family ties whilst giving each member of the family an important role in life. Islam honoured women, whether as mothers, daughters or sisters.
Islam paid a great deal attention to implanting the principle of respect for fathers and mothers, taking care of them and obeying their commands until death. Allah says
“And your Lord has decreed that you worship none but Him. And that you be dutiful to your parents. If one of them or both of them attain old age in your life, say not to them a word of disrespect, nor shout at them but address them in terms of honour”
Islam protects, honours, and it encourages marriage and forbids free mixing of men and women. Islam gives each family member an important role to play. So fathers and mothers take care of the children and give them an Islamic upbringing; children are to listen and obey, and respect the rights of fathers and mothers, on a basis of love and respect. Islam encourages men to treat their wives with respect.
In a Muslim family each member has an important role that they play. The roles of the husband in a Muslim family are: His first duty is maintenance and protection, and overall responsibility for the welfare of his wife; this includes feeding, clothing and shelter for the wife and for any children of the marriage. The role of husband revolves round the principle that it is his duty to Allah to treat his wife with kindness, honour and patience and to cause her no harm or grief. The husband should also help his wife with the household work. The husband should never raise his voice and he should never hit is wife. He should comfort her in times of need and should give her respect. As a Muslim, the husband must spend his money on his family and to make time for them. The main duties of the wife in a Muslim family are to contribute to the success of the marriage. She must be considerate, thoughtful and caring to the well being of her husband. The wife in a Muslim family should never offend or hurt her husband’s feelings. She must be faithful, trustworthy and honest. House welfare is very important part of the wife’s responsibilities towards her husband and children. As a wife she is responsible for managing her house, which includes many duties such as: cleaning, cooking, managing and socialisations. It is also the wife’s responsibilities to look after the children and give them the attentions they need. It is also the wife’s duty...