Colorado Technical University Online
September 18, 2011
I will be discussing the life of a man that we will call Jack Dough. Jack is my boyfriend and has agreed to be the subject of my psychological analysis. We will go over the main points of his life thus far and try to look at him through the psychoanalytic point of view. To understand what Jack Dough has went through and how he has become the man he is today, I will attempt to look at how he was raised. How Jack has went through the various stages of life per the view point of Erik Erikson’s work on psychosocial development, Kohlberg’s work on moral reasoning as well as Maslow’s and McClelland’s theories of need and motivation. I will also cover main points of the course overview in this paper as well.
Section 1 – Phase 1
There are two main points that I will go over when looking at the life of Jack Dough, giving a biological sketch as well as going over a psychological conjecture. Jack was born and raised in a small town. His family brought him up with the view that he could do anything that he wished. Many of his childhood friends loved to hang out with Jack because he was fun to play with and very easy going. As a child, Jack experienced many things that he probably should not have, but at no fault of his nor his immediate family. I chose to psychologically look at Jack because he is very awe-inspiring to me and honestly my best friend. Jack is now a 33 year old man that has been through a divorce and has 2 children, a daughter and a son (Dough, 2011). Jack has up to this point tried to instill the same values that his parents taught to him in his children. Jack was raised with 2 younger sisters, and now has a step-father due to his biological fathers passing. Jack attended higher education and obtained a master’s degree in Information Technology. Throughout his working career he has had many positions that held great value to him. There have been some not so correctable choices that Jack has made, this has only corrected his view on life and how it has developed for him. Jack does everything that he can do make others happy, not really caring what comes of any joy to himself. I think that this is one main reason that he is the love of my life as we share this quality. The major aspect that focuses this personal developmental path for Jack is the mother of his daughter. I have noticed that many times Jack had conversations with his ex-wife that he really did not agree with what she wanted but yet done exactly that. Jack is a take action sort of guy but yet on the same token he wants to please others before gaining pleasure for himself. In an informal interview, I spoke with Jack and we discussed what it is that he wishes to gain for the remainder of his life and how he wanted things to pan out for him. He stated, “I really don’t know what I want to happen, or where my life will end up. However I do know that you have been a huge part of who I have become in the past few years” (Dough, 2011). When we look at the psychological aspects of a person there are technically 7 psychological perspectives that are considered. The main one that I will be focusing on with Jack Dough is the Psychoanalytic Approach. What this approach focuses on is how Jack views his behavior when he is posed with different activities in his life through the unconscious mind (American Psychoanalytic Association, 2011). Jack does have issues of depression and has had suicidal thoughts as well, but these were caused by the stressors that are posed upon Jack that were caused from his previous relationships. He does complete a monthly session of “talk therapy” to assist him with his issues that he faces. The major problem that Jack faces is that he is not willing to allow himself the happiness that he deserves, because he allows everyone else around him to make decisions for him. I feel that if...