Process Essay: Break-Ups

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Have you ever had to get ever a break-up with a boyfriend or girlfriend? This is a difficult and dramatic process that affects your behavior drastically. People may become bitter or have bad strong feelings towards future partners or even have trust issues in general, and that’s not a good thing. There is many different ways that someone can get over her or his break-up without being sad or upset or disappointed. By getting rid of anything you might have of them, cutting off all or any communication, and by dating other people.our

The first thing a person should do to get over a break-up is get rid of anything that the other person had of him or her that can bring back memories. Dig deep and go into your room, or any place else and find those random pictures or items and throw them away. If you hold on to things that were left behind than you are prone to opening back up to the person and wanting to continue your relationship with him or her. Even think about if she or he does move on and your new partner comes across a happy picture with your old partner. This can make them feel very uncomfortable or even question your current relationship. Now she or he is in a bad situation with his or her new partner when it could have been prevented if she or he have just have gotten rid of all of hers or his old partner’s possessions.

Next, he or she should cut off all communication from one another. This helps with the process of moving on and forgetting about the other person. If she or he never talks to each other then they would not know what’s going on with the other person. Cutting off communication creates a wall between the person and yourself. Not allowing the two of you to even think, or see about one another. This is fine because she or he can become depressed if their old partner is doing better than them. For instance, if his or her old partner is engaged and is about to get married but you never found anyone new to even take you out on a date. This puts...
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