Premarital Sex

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Here I am to talk about Premarital Sex. First, What is sex? Sex is the purest form of self- expression, the most intimate way two people can give their love to each other. And when it goes wrong, it disrupts the entire relationship. It produces physical bonding that’s unique, special and important. Now what is premarital sex? It is sexual intercourse between people who are not married to each other. In today's society and culture we are surrounded by people telling us that we can find happiness by having sex at any time we feel like it. This message is displayed in the media through television, internet, music, movies, video games, and more. People will try to convince you and say "Just try it and you'll be happy," or "a life with no sex is boring." In our modern society, there are different opinions about premarital sex that they actually misunderstood. In other words, different lies are form about it. The first lie is that sex creates cintimacy. This is a lie because intimacy comes from verbal communication and emotional contact. The second lie is that starting sex early in a relationship will help you get to know one another and become better partners later. In healthy marriages, sex takes its natural place beside the intellectual, emotional and practical aspects of life. The third lie is that casual sex without long-term commitments is both fun and freeing. For a woman, particularly, sex can reveal hidden fears and lack of trust. Good sex-which can be a healing agent over time-requires trust, trust which grows best in the context of the life-long commitment of marriage. The fourth and final lie is that sex is freedom. Young people who become sexually active in response to peer pressure to be sophisticated and independent are actually becoming victims of current public opinion. No one is really free who engages in any activity in order to impress the majority. In conclusion, , I advise you to not have sex before you are married. Do not...
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