Interesting Stories of Same Sex Adoption
Adoption is a freedom that many parents have all over the United Sates. Adopting is what a lot of parents look forward to in helping out a child in need or saving one from an orphanage, either way adoption has great outcomes. However adopting for couples who are same sex, is not as positive an experience as those who are heterosexual couples. There are 18 states currently that allow same sex couples to adopt and to adopt as 2 parents; the others however, allow “second parent adoption”. This process means that one parent is the official parent of the child or children and the other is just the second guardian for them. Mississippi and Utah are the only 2 states left in the United States where a same sex couple cannot, by any means adopt a child (Williams 12). Each year 140,000 adoptions take place (Williams 12). The prices of an adopted child can range from 25,000 to 50,000 and upwards depending on the child’s position (Williams 13). Same sex couples living with children according to the U.S. census is 110,000, which has increased greatly since the year 2000(Alper). Although same sex adoption is becoming more accessible and acknowledgeable by many states there are still legal issues that come about with it.
Jacqui and Arlene, a same sex couple were the first couple ever to adopt as openly same sex in the state of Minnesota. They adopted a baby girl named Amanda on May 9, 1989. The couple at first had to apply for a second parent adoption, which is when one parent applies as single and the second applies to be another legal guardian of the child. After the state found this out, they allowed Jacqui and Arlene to be the parents of their daughter without the second parent adoption. Their story is life changing and interesting. Because of this couple, the state of Minnesota allowed same sex adoption. Their daughter Amanda today is a college student and is 18 years old. She is active in her...