The University of Houston
There isn’t a more difficult transition for a child than to be a victim to his or her parents' divorce. I have watched this in my friends and family, and in my own childhood. And even through attempts at reconciliation through family counseling, the children have suffered. This paper discuses the psychological effect on children during problems between parents pushing towards divorce. Divorce: The number one cause for children in the US to stray out and become rebellious in society. The rate of divorce has only slowed down here recently, primarily because of the financial disadvantage; but still sits at a global high of 4.95 per 1,000 people. But the monetary value doesn’t out way the heavy scare that’s placed on the mind of the child. The children are prone to anxiety, anger, sadness, insomnia and aggression. The child can suffer from one or all of these effects of divorce. Usually most of the children cope-up with these situations quick enough. But in some cases, children may face long lasting psychological effects of divorce: Speaking from experience these speculations are all too true. There is a wide range of emotions a child can experience during divorce, Some of which that are short-term and fade away with time, and those like trust within a relationship that can make a person timid for life. They may feel rejected and unloved by the parent that has left or just not in the household anymore. This may result in a feeling of being at fault for the actions taking place. For the same reason, children may Psychological effects of divorce on children, 2
believe the divorce is their fault, caused by something they said or did, or just the way they are, and feel a deep sense of guilt and shame (Mackenzie, 2007). Even difficult teens may be afraid that their behavior has contributed to the divorce and made it easier for a parent to leave. Then resulting in a sense of...