People s desire for power will lead them to instigate conflict
Conflict is no doubt a part of human nature and it is through the Interpersonal relationships we share with others that a hierarchical aspect has the ability to be created. This is where one person is deemed to naturally have more power than the other, which can either make us or break us. For most of us who start our first somewhat romantic relationship we have an expectation in our minds that film, television and the media have painted for us. Although, what we see portrayed on a screen is a far cry from reality. As the months have flown I have been stuck connected to a person who holds this power to move in and out of my life, as they can't seem to decide whether or not they want me as a part of their life. It hurts everyday, and even though it hurts me I stupidly allow myself to be mentally crippled by someone who has an incredible desire for power, who will spark conflict with those who stand in the way of their ambitions, with the fear of being seen as powerless.
He has now started university and has vanished from my everyday school life, however even though we are physically apart I feel as though I am a puppet and he is the puppet master controlling my every move. I find it so unbelievably difficult to understand how one person can hold so much influence over one’s life. Once he finished school last year with his 90.00 Atar score i thought my problems were over, clearly I was wrong. In some ways I feel that his main purpose is to ensure that I suffer from some form of inner conflict. The reality is he is the powerful and I am the powerless, and not doing anything to change where I stand is my biggest downfall.
Disharmony within oneself, can make us feel as though we have inflicted this unhappiness upon ourselves, however more often than not this inner conflict can be caused by those who feel they hold more power and superiority over us. Although it may seem, at times, easier to suppress our feelings and simply follow the lead of those in power, in fear
He has now started university and has vanished from my everyday school life, however even though we are physically apart I feel as though I am a puppet and he is the puppet master controlling my every move. I find it so unbelievably difficult to understand how one person can hold so much influence over one’s life. Once he finished school last year with his 90.00 Atar score i thought my problems were over, clearly I was wrong. In some ways I feel that his main purpose is to ensure that I suffer from some form of inner conflict. The reality is he is the powerful and I am the powerless, and not doing anything to change where I stand is my biggest downfall.
Disharmony within oneself, can make us feel as though we have inflicted this unhappiness upon ourselves, however more often than not this inner conflict can be caused by those who feel they hold more power and superiority over us. Although it may seem, at times, easier to suppress our feelings and simply follow the lead of those in power, in fear