Parenting Styles Have an Effect on Children

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The parenting style a parent decides to use to discipline the children can have either a positive or negative effect on the children. In the story The Ditchdigger’s Daughter by Yvonne S. Thornton, Thornton tells the story of how her parents parented her throughout her childhood. Thornton’s parents use a parenting style called authoritative parenting in which parents establish rules and guideline that their children are expected to follow. As authoritative as the Thorntons is, they are responsive to their children and willing to listen to questions about why they act the way they do towards their children as their parents. As parents they want their children to be self-confident as well as socially responsible and cooperative. When it comes to parenting there are many styles that parents use when parenting their children and each style can have an effect on their children as they grow. From my personal observation there are parents who have a way of parenting which they believe is effective for their children, but in reality it may have a negative effect on their children. Also, in the article, “My Parents”, Richard Rodriguez’s parenting style can be classified as permissive due to fewer standards and rules that they input in their household. Authoritative parents expect the best from the their children, making them self-confident; authoritarian parents can have an existential or mental effect, and permissive parents can turn out children with a lack of self-confidence, which can have a negative or positive effect on their children, as will be shown using examples from The Ditchdigger’s Daughters, “My Parents” and my personal observation. Authoritative parenting is a style that can have a positive effect on children as they grow older. As authoritative parents they establish rules and guidelines that their children are expected to follow at all times. As parents they are there to encourage their children’s independence and listen to their children’s opinion...
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