Parental expectations are basically the way parents expect their kids to live their lives. The definition of expectation is “the act of expecting; to have a prospect of future good or profit”. Parents often expect their kids to be perfect. By this I mean make all the right decisions, do everything the way the parents want it to be done, and live up to their parents standards. I don’t always agree with a lot of today’s parental expectations because some parents try to benefit themselves instead of the kids. In this essay, I will describe parental expectations from today and from the play Romeo and Juliet. I will link some of the examples of expectations to movies, or real life scenarios.
Today's Parental Expectations
Sometimes in today's world, parents expect so much from their kids that the kids don't feel comfortable in their own shoes. Parents can expect so much that the children aren't even happy. If parents find out their kid is "gifted" growing up, they often push him/her towards success instead of letting them grow up normally like any other kid wants. If the kid can't live up to their parents expectations, sometimes their parents will get very angry at them. An example from a movie about this is the movie "Friday Night Lights". In this movie, there is a runningback who often fumbles the ball. He clearly is not doing it on purpose but his dad becomes more and more embarrassed of his son every time it happens. (His dad is an alcoholic, which doesn't help either.) One night when he comes home with a friend, he knocks over a lamp. His dad asks what happened to the lamp and his son says that he dropped it. He dad gets very mad at him and asks if he dropped the lamp just like he drops the football. They get into an argument. Then his father, due to his anger, grabs a football and duct-tapes it to his son's hands. I find this scene is a very good example of how sometimes kids cannot live up to their parents...