Our parents have the biggest effect in our lives. The way in which they raise us depicts who we are going to be. When Okonkwo was growing up, his father impacted his fear of being thought of as weak. He had to prove to his community that he wasn’t like his father. In the powerful story of, Things Fall Apart, by Chinua Achebe he tells a story of an Ibo farmer (Okonkwo) who lives in Nigeria. Instead of controlling his fear, he allows it to take over him and force his actions on people. Although he is known for his fearlessness, he experiences this internal worry about himself and the fear of failure and weakness. In Umofia, the father is known to provide for the family, since his father was incapable of affording anything he grew up with a weakness that he couldn’t overthrow. Okonkwo did not have the start in life which many other men had so he struggled. “Unoka (Okonkwos father) was an ill-fated man. He had a bad chi or personal god, and evil fortune followed his to the grave, or rather his death, for he had no grave”(18). Okonkwo didn’t inherit a barn, title or wife. As a child he grew up with a father who showed him what a man shouldn’t be. He grows up being very ashamed of his father and spends his entire life trying not to be life him. Unoka spent his life barrowing from people and never repaying them. “In his day he was lazy and improvident and was quite incapable of thinking about tomarrow… Unoka the grown-up was a failure”(45). He had an enormous effect on Okonkwo. Unoka’s weaknesses gave him the drive to become a well-respected man of the village. When Okonkwo was still young he won several wrestling matches and became known as the greatest wrestler in all the villages. He became a wealthy farmer with two barns full of yams and just married his third wife. Because of his father’s life, he was forced to make his life successful all by himself. Okonkwo cares about his village and what the people of Umofia think of him. Since he is very...
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