My Grandpa, My Example
My family was always very united. My brother, my sister, and I sare very close, and we are always together. In the year of 1995, we suffered a huge loss. Our dad passed away due to cancer when I was 5 years old, my brother 4 and my sister 12. It was really hard for everybody in our family. Also, my mother is bipolar. Frequently she would have to be hospitalized in a clinic to be able to get back to normal again. She would stay there for more than a month. It was really traumatizing to me. I felt really alone and vulnerable in the world. I understand that it wasn’t easy to her. She had to quit her job and take care of 3 young kids by herself. My brothers and I had the perfect scenario to create a problematic personality. I know that grow up without a male figure can be dangerous, but we are so lucky to be close to the father of my father. We didn’t feel this gap with too much intensity. I still can remember my dad holding me, playing with me, giving me the eye to eye validation and being there for us. My mom always make sure to enroll us in a school located close to my grandparents house, so every day after school we would spend the evening in their house and in the end of the day my mom would pick us up.. When I was just a kid my happiness was spend as much time as possible in the company of my grandparents. My grandmother always liked to cook for us and to spoil us, but my grandfather was more rigid, teaching us about life and challenges. We had the holding, the eye validation, the attention, the togetherness with my grandmother and my mom, but with grandfather was different, he had a strange way to show us love. Many times I thought that he was being mean to us. But I didn’t understand at that time. His way to show things to us were very different. He used to give us a little money every month if we had a good behavior, but if we did anything wrong he would discount a part of the amount. He also would stimulate me to...
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