To manipulate a person is a horrible tool, and it can leave a person emotionally scared. When someone uses this technique they simply have no care or concern for a person’s feelings. They are totally wrong and will do anything to take control of a persons mind. They are liars who believe their own lies and only want to convince a specific person to also believe in them. They have emotional issues and they don’t care about anyone but themselves.
Manipulators choose victims that are honest, overly nice, and vulnerable. They can read people carefully to figure out exactly what their vulnerabilities are. When they find that out its easy for them to take control. People who trust anyone and are naïve are easy preys to manipulators and will fall victim to the abuse. A manipulator will find people who have low self-esteem and are not confident in themselves and that it self will make it easy for them. They get to know a person better than a person knows their own self.
In most cases manipulators want to play the victim themselves. They convince you to feel sorry for them by telling bogus stories and excessive lies. They know that their victims are caring and wont want to see them hurt or unhappy. They are used to getting what they want and will con a person without a doubt. A manipulator convinces people to do things that they would not normally do and they don’t even realize it. They take advantage of people simply because they know they can.
Most of the time you don’t really know if a person is lying or telling the truth. Therefore you really cant tell if someone is lying or not because you don’t have any proof. A manipulator doesn’t just tell a number of lies they just don’t tell the whole story. They most of the time tell u only what they want you to know which may be the truth in some cases. Eventually some lies will be discovered but they will continue to tell lies and its kind of crazy. When a person constantly lies even when they...
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