Love.. why do some relationships fail? why do some last? ..
All my life, I was looking for answers to that question. And I found it when I met him. My boyfriend, Champ. But I learned more when I watched this..
By Chance starring Jhamville and Paolinne Michelle
well, its a short clip you can watch it on Youtube (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uTVwbaKVUSU&feature=relmfu). Its a typical love story when they first met, when they had a date, when they were 'in a relationship' in facebook, their first kiss and their anniversary. Well I'm taken and I can really relate and they opened my eyes about my fear of having a long-term relationship. I'm scared because when you stay longer in the relationship, chances are the feeling will be gone and all the love you had for all those months and years will be wasted. That's what I believe but when I watched this short film. I realized I'm wrong. Because they said that..
"Feelings and emotions change. It doesn’t mean that if you don’t feel something for each other anymore, the love is gone. If love is only feelings then there’s no such thing as lasting. Love can be sometimes turn numb or even be boring, you just have to be patient. But no matter what, as long as you decide to stay and continue, IT WILL BE MORE BEAUTIFUL.”
So incase that our relationship will face this stage wherein we are about to break up.. I'll just have to see the chances of him to leave and walk out of that door or comeback and stay. We'll see if it'll be more BEAUTIFUL.
Thank you Jamich for that film. Its now I know what to do to handle our relationship, because I'm really serious. He may be mean, sometimes boring. insensitive, hurting but you know what? I love Champ, I gave him this chance and I never regret. :)