“Leave it to beaver”
A solid family is defined as a group of people who are there for one another through all of life’s trials and tribulations. They are the group of people that a son, daughter, mother or father can feel safe to coming home at night. A solid family is united as one and respects one another. In America it is starting to become rare to find a good solid American family. In the year 1980, 77% of children under the age of 18 were living in a two parent household. In the year 2005 an estimated 67% of children under the age of 18 were living in the household. In a span of twenty-five years the percentage of a good solid family household decreased. It is important nowadays to have a good solid foundation where you grow up because it defines you as a person. A solid family can be defined through the influence of the parents, their faith, their surroundings with peers and the openness and willingness to be loved for who they are.
Influence from the parents is the main foundation of a solid family. When a child notices that the mother and father are treating one another with respect then they will want to react the same way towards their siblings and even their aunts, uncles and grandparents. The young child will say “please” and “thank you” and “Sir” and “Ma’am” when they are being talked to. They will hold their parents in a much greater light when they show the respect to them. Parents also have to show their children respect. Nowadays statistics show that most teens who get into trouble often times have trouble in their own homes that they are brought up in. When fighting, violence, verbal abuse and physical abuse are all present in the parents’ relationship towards their children these are factors of why they want to breakout and escape the hellish life that they are living at home. That does not create a solid family but instead a chaotic family that doesn’t have any hope. Parents are the essentials of bringing up a loving individual and they...
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