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Journal on A Valediction: Forbidding Mourning by John Donne

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John Donnes A Valediction: Forbidding Mourning is a distinctive metaphysical poem about love and the connection of passion and feelings. He believes the love with his wife will help them go through the harshness of separation, as it will only strengthen the relationship with his lady.

Using skillfully the figure of speech in his poem, John Donne expresses his love to his wife through the valediction. As they have to endure the separation, he compares the loss feeling to death. Donne mentions virtuous men as they are immortal; for their souls may part the bodies but the living ones still long for them (Brackett.) He writes:So let us melt, and make no noise,No tear-floods, nor sigh-tempests move;'Twere profanation of our joysTo tell the laity our love.

He tells his wife to stay calm and do not cry since making such a miserable scene is the action laity people do. He assures her they are not common people, so they should keep their deep emotion inside as it would be overwhelming the parting scene. In the next stanza Donne refers to Trepidation of the spheres as the moving of the Earth. At that time people believed the Earth is center of the universe and other planets moving around it (Brackett.) Therefore this image links to the compass and the circle symbols later on in the poem, with its everlasting spinning of the Earth, just like the lovers romance. Unlike that eternal relationship, the dull sublunary lovers cannot bear absence. They would not understand the need of bonding even when being apart. Donne and his wife have the type of romance that is so much refined, they cannot even understand it. Their relationship is not only about missing the eyes, the lovers lip or the warmth of their hands. The missing feeling here is missing a part of themselves. Though the missing is hard to ear, believing in the others return helps them get through the separation. On the following stanza Donne talks about the reunions sight:Our two souls therefore, which are...