Before discussing treatment, original orientation must be understood. "Kinsey suggests that sexual orientation ranges along a continuum from exclusively homosexual (Kinsey rating "6") to exclusively heterosexual (Kinsey rating"0") (House and Miller, 1997)" (Slife, 2004). There are many things to look at and consider when trying to define one's sexuality. The first is identity, or self-labeling, whether a person calls themselves, gay, lesbian or bisexual. The second factor to consider is behavior; does the person have sexual contact with members of the same gender? The third is basic orientation. It is defined as the person's immediate sexual attractions and experiences of romantic love. These feelings are focused on members of the same gender (Evans, 2003). Sexual orientation is not always expressed in one's behavior (APA, 2005). There are questions as to whether the concept of sexual orientation is at all valid. Being gay, lesbian, or bisexual has a different meaning to everyone (Slife, 2004).
"There are numerous theories about the origins of a person's sexual orientation; most scientists today agree that sexual orientation is most likely the result of a complex interaction of environmental, cognitive and biological factors. In most people, sexual orientation is shaped at an early age. There is also considerable recent evidence to suggest that biology, including genetic or inborn hormonal factors, play a significant role in a person's sexuality. In summary, it is important to recognize that there are probably many reasons for a person's sexual orientation and the reasons may be different for different people" (APA, 2005). The nature versus nurture conflict of homosexuality plays a huge role in the entire basis of one's sexuality. Neither side, nature versus nurture, has been proven. Many feel that sexuality is a combination of both.
It is believed by members of the American Counseling Association that "Efforts to assist homosexually oriented individuals who wish to modify their patterns of sexual arousal have been effective, can be conducted in an ethical manner, and should be available to those clients requesting such assistance (Slife, 2004). I someone is seeking help, it should not be refused. No one should tell someone that what it is they are seeking for themselves is wrong.
Human beings can not choose to be either gay or straight. Sexual orientation emerges for most people in early adolescence without any prior sexual experience. Although we can choose whether to act on our feelings, psychologists do not consider sexual orientation to be a conscious choice that can be voluntarily changed (APA, 2005). Without a more certain way to objectively determine sexual orientation, outcomes should be determined by self-assessment of clients (Throckmorton, 2005). Some psychologists believe that whether homosexuality is a disorder is not relevant. "Psychotherapy is appropriate when applied to unwanted behaviors and unhappy constructions, rather than to so-called abnormal disorders" (Nicolosi, 2005).
One direction taken by reorientation therapists is that gay men or lesbians feel inadequate in their masculine or feminine identities, respectively. They therefore desire support and companionship from same-sex partners because they missed such gender-role affirmation while they were children. Because of this, they misunderstand the desire for affirmation from the same-sex as being sexual attraction. In this form of treatment, whenever clients...