strictly punish children for small faults — means to lose any of their trust and respect. Jean de La Bruyère was a French philosopher and moralist.
serious risk for parents is that instead of becoming for the child force protecting, helping it to develop, realize the purposes in this life, parents can become a type of problems or sufferings which the person in this life faces.
Physical discipline perpetuates aggressiveness and anger instead of teaching responsibility, control and reason. The group also warns that research has shown that children who are spanked are more likely as adults to hit family members or engage in criminal and violent activities. Researchers have found that physical discipline can have negative effects. A recent study in the scientific journal Headache in 2010 evaluated 4,000 children aged 13 to 15 and found that those who experienced physical maltreatment were significantly more likely to develop headaches and more frequent or intense headaches. They concluded that individuals who were disciplined by physical force as children were more likely to be prone to depression, anxiety and self-criticism in their adult years.
parents act by the principle "if you will feel sorry for a stick – you will spoil the child"
Strict education results in humility. Humility is dangerous that the child in general loses ability to see the purposes therefore humility leads to that the will of the child is broken, mind and his heart are closed and as a result he has no chance to be realized in this life.
Hitting your child will only lead them into growing up an hating you. Also it can cause the child to not love you and feel the need to disrespect you every chance they get. Abuse is never the answer there are always ways to discipline.
Maybe punishment could attend physical force, but not only with children, because it badly affects child's psychic. There are very many...