From the moment our parents announce that there is to be a new baby in the family, we are expected to go through a lot of adjustments.
The first and foremost is sharing. Sharing of our dear parents, our rooms, our toys, our favorite foods and so on.
The second is comparison. The parents, teachers and sometimes even relatives start to compare the siblings. The comparison may be regarding our character, behavior, studies, coloring etc. The often repeated words in many houses is “Why can’t you be like your brother or sister? See how good they are. You should learn from them.”
The third is favoritism. Many parents have a favorite child. It may be because they remind them of their favorite person, like their parents or siblings. Or maybe because that child loves them unconditionally. However, this causes the less loved child to regard the other as a rival.
One of the favorite things our siblings like to do is to find out and tell our secrets to the very people we try to keep it secret from. They like to boast their own achievements and put down ours.
But, not everything about having a sibling is bad. They are generally there for us when we need them. We can always depend on them when we are in some difficult situation. They sometimes save us from punishments and retributions, if they feel sorry for us. Of course they might need a bribe or some sort of favor after-wards.
If your sibling is older than you, he/she would have paved the way for you in school, tuition and sports. If they are younger than you, you can and probably will boss them around and make them do what you want.
There is a Chinese...