Interpersonal Communications Summary Paper

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This Interpersonal Communications Summary Paper is going to contain and address the subjects of Nonverbal Communication, Male/Female Communication, Anger, and Relationship Development. The different styles of communication people have are usually influenced by their family, age, class, gender and social structure. Verbal communication is the mainstay of interpersonal communication but in many cases nonverbal communication can play a major role when people converse. Many scholars agree that there are more nonverbal cues than words in the dictionary. Many times we don’t always realize that we miscommunicate with each other thus causing problems and conflict. It’s truly different how men and women communicate, I will cover some of their most common communication differences. Effective Interpersonal Communication and anger don’t mix, in moments of anger people need to control and channel their anger to achieve positive results. Relationships are at the heart of human behavior, building solid relationships can have a lifelong impact on our personal and moral development. Nonverbal communication is just as important as verbal communication and it can take many forms during its transmission, the process of nonverbal communication is accomplished through the sending and receiving of wordless messages. Language studies traditionally emphasize verbal and written communication but dismiss the importance of the silent language. It comes in many forms, it can be a person’s clothing, strut, facial expression, gestures, eye contact and tone of voice. To thoroughly understand some nonverbal communication you must also be versed in different cultures. There are many nonverbal differences across cultures that may be misleading or be a source of confusion. Research suggests that nonverbal communication is more important in understanding human behavior than spoken words. There are many universal emotions, such as fear, sadness, happiness are expressed in similar ways around the world. Body movement covers a large area that is not just hand and arm gestures, it’s referring to any movement of any part of the body. Throughout the world a shoulder shrug can express innocence or ignorance. By nodding and shaking your head normally always means yes or no. Body language The United States military has a complete nonverbal combat language called hand and arm signals and an additional nonverbal language for launch and recovery of aircraft. We send information attitude toward a person by facing them or looking at the ceiling or avoiding eye contact. Emotional status can be transmitted by tapping foot or fingers, biting finger nails or chewing on one selves lip. All people use movement to communicate and culture teaches us how to use and decipher the movements. Our body posture communicates how casual we are, how serious, friendly, attentive, sad, scared, nervous, distracted, our posture also sends many other hidden messages we need be aware of, reading nonverbal movement is crucial. In the Middle East if you show a person the bottom of your foot it’s considered an insult, this could happen easily if you sit in a chair and cross your legs. Another insult in the Middle East is if you wave to them with your left hand, this is because the clean themselves with their left hand after they defecate, sometimes this is done without toilet paper. A friendly welcoming gesture in many cultures is when a person smiles at another while approaching and holds out their arms with their palms up. One of my favorite movie scenes in the movie “Step Brothers” is when during a job interview with both of them present, they are slouched in their chairs, the interviewer just told them that they were hired and one of the brothers lifts his buttocks off the chair and exerts a huge burst of flatulence. The brothers verbal and nonverbal message to the job interviewer was that they weren’t very serious about getting the job, they didn’t....
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