How many times do we see
ourselves in the mirror and make negative comments about our looks. I’m not pretty or I’m too fat or I’m too overweight.
These are few of the phrases that
first come to mind in most girls when they
look at themselves in the mirror.
Well, 90% of teenage girls do not
like the way they look or appear.
The reason for that is - in our society you get
attention from people if you look attractive and stunning.
Some girls who are overweight would get negative comments from peers like- ‘That girl is too ugly’ or ‘That girl looks like a bulldozer’. Fat is not something you have, it is something you are. We don't say "You have fat," we say, "You are fat." We identify with our bodies. So the teenager gets the message that this fatness is badness. Some of the teenagers who don’t accept the way they look, try to change themselves by dieting which leads to illnesses and diseases like anorexia. Dieting is the practice of ingesting food in a regulated fashion to achieve or maintain a controlled weight. In most cases the goal is weight loss in those who are overweight or obese, but some people these days start dieting because they want to change the way they appear to the society.
But what really matters in life? An old proverb states, “Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.” Something or someone is beautiful, depending on the perspective of the person looking in. But the major thing that matters is- Is the person good-looking from inside? Because Without a doubt inner beauty lasts forever whereas outer beauty fades. Anyone can fake the outside to make himself or herself look better and pretty but inner beauty can't be faked. For example you could be the most beautiful person in the world but if you have a horrible personality it just makes you ugly. Your body image is how you perceive, think and feel about your body but this may have no link at all on your actual appearance. For instance, it is common in Western...