Informational Speech How to Deal with an Upset Wife

Informational Speech

How to deal with an upset wife

June 17, 2010

I. Introduction
A.     “Every man who is not a monster, mathematician or a mad philosopher, is the slave of some woman or other”
-George Eliot, Scenes of Clerical Life – Amos Barton

B.       Dealing with cranky women is difficult, however here are some ways to help you do so;
1.   Don’t make her angry.
2.   If you do, let her release her anger calmly.
3.   It’s not what you say.
Transition: Now pay attention because what I have to say can help you live a lot more stress free.
II.Body
A.       Don’t make her angry
1.       Understand that women are moody and emotional beings.
(a)     Women use their emotions when making decisions.
(b)   Men work in terms of logical checkpoints.
(c)     Ty not to put yourself in a bad predicament.

2.       Try not to piss her off.
(a)     A wave of arguments will occur from this
(b)   If you do there’s an easier way to deal with anger. 90 % of couples argue Ten percent of all couples sit down calmly and discuss things rationally. And, ironically, they have the healthiest relationships
Transitions: Which bring me to my next point…
               
                B. Help her release her anger calmly.

1.       This is easily done. It takes care and a little bit of genuine concern.

                    (a) Using phrases such as “let’s talk about it”
                          (b) “help me understand you better”.
2.       If you notice she is already having a bad day.

(a) Remember that women are emotional beings, and react to emotion rather than logic.
(b) Take care of some of her house responsibilities allowing her to be released from home-stress.
 

Transition: Now that you have tried to not make her upset (but ya still did) and you have also tried to make her fell better you should also know that,

C. It is not what you say it’s how you say it.
1. Remember a woman in her mind is never wrong.
(a)     Body language is... [continues]

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