Importance of Family

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Sparkles, diamonds, and gold jewelry: three things my grandma lived for. She had countless sets of jewelry and a matching piece for every outfit she owned. The one gift anyone could give her, and her face would light up immediately. I share that quality with my grandma and I enjoyed looking at her jewelry, that’s why this past year I received a necklace from my Aunt Chris. The necklace has become a huge part of who I am today. The necklace is made of three components, and each component symbolizes one member from my dad’s side of the family. The main part, the topaz, resembles my great-grandma, Christina Jones. She is my grandmas mom. Her birthday was in November, as is mine, and the topaz came from a ring my grandma, Dorothy, had bought in remembrance of my great-grandmother. The topaz is the center of the necklace and is the biggest component. Next are three diamonds, sitting on top of the topaz in a setting that hangs from the chain, that shine brightly just like my grandma did whenever she smiled. They too came from a ring of hers. They symbolize her so nicely because she loved anything that sparkled, and these three sure do shine! Lastly, the chain represents my Aunt Chris. It is a white gold chain that is the perfect length and allows the charm to rest peacefully on my upper chest for anyone to admire. I received the necklace for a late sixteenth birthday gift from my Aunt Chris. She gave it to me because she and I have a strong relationship, and I am the oldest grand-daughter in the family. My grandma gave my Aunt all of her jewelry while she was in the nursing home for her to keep it safe and allowed my aunt to do with it as she pleased. Due to my birthday and our special relationship, she surprised me with the necklace so I could always have a piece of my great-grandma, grandma, and herself. Since the day I received it, I have yet to take it off: going without it makes me feel lost and as if I'm missing a part of me. It means more to me now than it did the day I received it because my grandma has now passed away and it helps me think of her easily. The necklace lets me believe she is always by my side and is fighting with me through my battles. During the grieving of her death, the necklace made me stronger because I knew she was in a better place and was no longer suffering; the necklace helped me stay positive even though it was a hard time for my family. It's been a little over three months since she passed and the necklace remains on my neck, keeping all of the memories of my grandma close to my heart. The necklace gives me hope of being as amazing as she was while tying me to the rest of my family as well. I now realize the importance of having strong family ties rather than everyone doing their own things and meeting up on Christmas or Easter. Family should stay connected and updated in each other’s lives rather than seeing each other twice a year because it’s easier for them to be there for you when it is in need. Family means more to me now than it ever has because of my grandma’s death. I have really strong relationships with my family members, especially my parents, and I love spending time with them. A person can live without friends: it's lonely, but manageable. Living without family, however, is impossible because family is always there when you friends aren't, and you need family. The death of my Grandma taught me the importance of family. I was close to her, but not as close as I wish we could have been and now that she’s gone, I regret not spending more time with her. I was never that close to her because we lived far apart and when I did go see her, the time was short. If I could go back in time and change things, getting to know my grandma better would be one. Throughout my life, she taught me to always remember who I am and what I deserve by telling me that I was beautiful, young lady and that I always should stand up for myself. The times I had with her are some of my fondest memories, and I...
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