I Want a Husband

The Husband I Want
Being a woman is never easy. However, the Martians do not know how truly hard it is to be a woman. Besides the fact that we always get visit form tour greatest enemy once a month and the pain we have to go through in the labour room, this is still not enough. No exact words can describe what a woman is. Mother, housewife, homekeeper, counselor, chef and the list could go on and on. Tears and heartache, anger and sadness, joy and laughter, forgiveness and mercy. How can one person be so much? Nevertheless, those are all what it takes to be a woman. Due to the fact, that we, women, have so many things to cope and achieve in our life, I decide that I would want a husband for myself. To my future husband, do not worry because all I want is just some simple things from you so that everything will be alright. It is never too hard to ask for some small things and then get something in return. If you just persevere and adhere to all these little things, I can guarantee you that our life will be easy and everything will run smoothly.    
I want you to listens to me. I do not want you to be Mr. Fix It. Just stop fixing things when they go wrong and please do not give me your advice when I am sharing with you my problems. I just want you to listen to me without being judgmental and providing solutions. Though this may not make sense to you, I just want to vent and let everything go and that is why I need you to listen. It would be soothing and calming when you are there to listen when I have issues in my everyday routine.
Next, I wish that you can understand me. I want you to understand myself better than I am. I need you to understand how I feel, understand sometimes why I can be weird, understand how I can laugh and cry simultaneously, understand why I am acting in such ways and basically I just want you to understand me. I know you may not like what I am asking you to do now, but I would really appreciate it if you just give it a try.
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