And so you have to break the routine and bring back some excitement in your relationship to avoid boredom and conflicts.
Hobbies and Activities
You should take the resolution to be open-minded to try almost anything that you have never tried. Revamp your shared activities and hobbies.
Meet new friends and create new hobbies. This is a nice way to bring back excitement in your relationship. Try to create new hobbies or interest that you can do together.
Here are some examples…
You may join a dancing club or sport club that you find both enjoyable and relaxing. At the same time you will meet new people and friends.
Go in nature to have an adventure. It can be camping, swimming, hiking, rock climbing, etc.
You can try cook/eat new types of food together (asian, mexican, american, italian, greek, middle eastern, etc). It can put your girlfriend in the right mood afterwards depending how spicy the food was.
You can even play a video game together. Personally, I like to play a “scary” video game with a girlfriend as it gives her a pretext to hold on tight to me.
IMO, the key to developing new hobbies is giving them enough of a chance. Most of this stuff you will not be interested in right away, especially if you don’t know much about it. Try it together regularly for a couple weeks before passing judgement.
Spice It Up
You want to share some very intimate and exciting moments just between the two of you.
The opposite of boredom is indeed excitement. The more exciting moments you share together, the more satisfying your relationship will become....