HOW CAN AN UNDERSTANDING OF THE WAYS IN WHICH CHILDREN DEVELOP HELP ADULTS TO BUILD MORE SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIPS WITH CHILDREN?
I believe that understanding of the ways in which children develop plays an important role
in bringing up children
It In this essay basing on the research evidences from the course study materials. I am
going to examine the importance of understanding child's development. II will demonstrate
how understanding of the ways in which children develop can help to build positive
relationships and how this knowledge can help them develop social and emotional skills and
improve family life. I will also demonstrate importance of open communication between
careers with children in deferent age groups.
A child’s ability to develop good relationships is important step on the way to getting the best
out of their lives. It is important to form this close relationships right from the start. Forming
good relationships is also important for childs wellbeing and self-esteem. Every child need a
group of loyal supporters who can understand they needs and who they can trust most. Family also plays an important role in developing their social and emotional skills. Communication
with babies is very main part of their development. Through facial expression, noises and
movement child is discovering the world. Rai and Flynn (2004,p.27) states that ,, The
conversations that babies' have with their mothers, it is important in that it introduces babies
to the patterns in their language and establishes familiar routines for them“.
A good example is Mia, she is the youngest one in the case study family and through play
with her older sister Daisy and brother Ryan, is developing her skills. Rai and Flynn (2004,
p.28) state that, ,, All of the children are musical and I can see Mia following in their
footsteps. She really listen when Daisy is singing, and even when Ryan plays his fiddle“.
Mia's family can recognize her range of emotions. For example Ryan knows that when their
mum gave Mia milk she topped crying. Daisy together with parents know her's difference
cries - for attention, when hungry or when need a cuddle.
From positive relationships they can learn how to communicate with others. Honest
communication also plays a important role in forming band of trust, Rain and Flynn ( 2004, p.
41) state that : , For babies and young children, relationship begin with personal kind and are
usually with members of the family. Child psychologist who study these relationships have
concluded that the quality of them is important for children's future emotional wellbeing'.
Charlotte from case study family ( DVD, 2007 band 2), who is 2 years old and comes from
broken family Charlotte with her mum Emma and brother stayed in temporary
accommodation for broken families. It has been unsettling for her. They moved twice in one
year. Parents separation and luck of attention shows that she has got attitude problem and is
unable to form close relationship with her mum left a mark on her behavior. The strange
situation test DVD band 2 shows that Emma's limited understanding of childs development
and traumatic start , left mark on her behavior. Charlotte seems insecure and unsure if her mum loves her, she has got problem with approaching mum . Rai and Flynn ( 2007, p42)
states that: , people's lack of readiness to be parents and stressful circumstances surrounding
their lives can influence the relationships they have with children". After getting help from a
play therapist . Charlotte mother decided to start to rebuild their relationship.
Ryan's 4 years old, from the case study family, shows a common problem which in this case
is unhappy bedtimes, he doesn't want to go to bed and stay in all night. His parents are
worried that he will be...