How Are Parents Shape Our Identity

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We define identity as the collective aspect of a set of characteristics by which a thing is definitively recognizable or known. Our identity is formed by the people around us; mainly being our parents. We have no considerable identity that lasts with us our entire lives. Rather, our identity consists of an on-going process in which our behavior follows patterns based on the patterns we see in the people around us.

From the moment our life begins it is shaped by our parents, even before birth they have given you your genetic material, which plays a big role in our appearance and how others will see us in the world. From the very moment we are born we are identified by the name our parents have given us. Now many people think that your name does not make you who you are and has no part in your true identity It is true that your name will have no impact on the type of person you are or the quality of your life; but it is found that your name may influence decisions within your life, it is called implicit egoism. Nuttin, J, M (1985) found that people prefer the letters in their names to letters that are not in their names. The idea behind this tendency is that people generally like themselves and therefore like anything that is associated with the self. Our names are very strongly associated with our selves; they represent who we are. Therefore, our positive self-views are transferred to positive evaluations of our name letters. This name letter effect was found in a lot of countries, with different cultures and different alphabets. However, if the idea is that a positive self-view leads to a preference for anything that is associated with the self, what would be the effect of negative self-views be? If positive self-views lead to a preference for self-associated stimuli, then only people who feel good about themselves should show this tendency. Smeets, Holland, and van Knippenberg (2006) investigated the role of (implicit) self-esteem on these name letter...
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