Honesty Is the Best Policy

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Honesty.

Having a relationship is a compromise and it comes along with many responsibilities. A good relationship can’t just be found, It has to be created. A good relationship requires the happy and willing effort of two lovers, and this makes it grow more with each passing day. One of the most important things in a relationship is being honest. If you don't trust the person your with, the relationship will never work. honesty in a relationship is a very real value that we should do everything in our power to keep alive. The health and longevity of the relationship depends upon it. If we can’t trust those who are closest to us we cannot rely on them in times of stress or in a crisis. It leaves us filled with doubt rather than imbued with confidence and it gradually eats away at the relationship until it is destroyed.

To begin with, when we hide our true feelings, we often think that we are protecting another person from hurt. We ignore it just to avoid confrontation with someone. Most of us were taught that if you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all. Honesty is telling "the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth.” Society's definition of the truth telling is to tell the truth ONLY if it doesn't make anyone uncomfortable, doesn't cause a conflict, and it makes you look good. I'm not talking about the big lies, but more about the consistent, persistent "lies of omission" and "white lies" we tell people almost everyday. For me, I didn't even consider these small untruths to be lies until I experienced the exact opposite, the whole truth. Honesty is essential to the health of a romantic relationship. We should feel safe to speak our mind to our boyfriend of girlfriend.

Also I would like to say, honesty is very important in a relationship if there's no honesty then there's no relationship honesty and love are the main thing you build a relationship on. A relationship is like a building or...
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