It is so much better to have two moms or two dads, than no parents at all? In March 2007, there were 65,000 children adopted and being raised by homosexual parents in the United States (Gandossy, 2007). There were also, more than 14,100 foster children in loving homes with homosexual couples (Gandossy, 2007). There are so many children that need parents in America, parenting should not be defined by sexuality, instead anyone who is fit to be parents should be allowed to adopt. So why not let homosexual couples adopt? We must consider the estimated millions of children that are in the child welfare system. The Child Welfare League of America (CWLA) confirms that homosexuals are just as appropriate to raise children and have families as any heterosexuals (CWLA, 2009). The American Academy of Pediatrics claims that children with homosexual parents have the same opportunities and the same presumptions for health, adjustment, and development as children who have heterosexual parents (Coparent or second-parent adoption by same-sex parents.,2002). This is not an issue about gays”, Ohio House Speaker Jon Husted states, who was adopted as a child. “This is about children” (Stone, 2008). Homosexual parents have proven their qualifications for being foster. The National Adoption Center believes that each and every child deserves a stable and permanent home with a loving and nurturing family. The National Adoption Center also has a policy that no one should be refused from the deliberation in the adoption procedure due to marital status, sexual orientation, lifestyle, disablility, physical appearance, race, gender, age, religion, and the size of family (Organization, 2009). Statistics show that it is times to let homosexual couples provide loving homes for children in need. In the chart below you will be about to see just how many children need these loving homes. The percentage rate of children living in foster care in the United States is a huge 79 percent the children living in foster care awaiting adoption is relatively small, only 18 percent. As you can see, only three percent are adopted by homosexual couples. With these ratios, it would better for the children to have a stable, permanent, loving home with homosexual couples. .
For example, Rob Calhoun and his partner Clay Calhoun have two adopted children. “We’re not moms, we’re not heterosexual. We’re not biological parents,” Rob Calhoun said. “But we’re totally equal and just as loving as female parents, as straight parents, and biological parents” (Gandossy, 2007, para. 11). “Love makes a family, not biology or gender,” he added (Gandossy, 2007, para. 12). This leads us to consider the children with “Special Needs”, this could mean a medical condition or the hurt they have lived through in their past (Organization, 2009). Many of the homosexuals that are trying to adopt are often seen as resources for “Special Needs” children (2009). The homosexuals are so excited to become parents and build a loving family; that many are keen to take the children that most pass on. Most of the children adopted by homosexuals are the ones with the most obligations (CWLA, 2009). “Rather than excluding, one might consider that some people, because of their sexual orientation, may be better able to serve these children” (CWLA, 2009, pg 3, para 3). The statistics in the chart below, gives an example of the percentages of homosexuals who want children, currently have children, and who are considering adoption. The chart is broken down by Gay men, Gay and Lesbians (combined), and Lesbians women. For the Gay men that want children, the percentage rate is relatively higher at 41percent, than Lesbian women at 16 percent. Gay men that currently have children were also relatively higher at 52 percent than Lesbian women at 35%. Also, notice that in the chart below, 46 percent of the combined gay men and lesbian women have considered adoption.
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