High Expectations for Children

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  • Published : September 17, 2012
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The perception of success is characterized by financial stability and power in most western and some eastern countries. The drive for success has morphed into a rat race to reach the top. With the tuition costs rising faster than inflation or wage increases, enrollment is more competitive than ever (Stone). In order to alleviate some of the financial strain, parents and students seek any monetary grants to put a child through college that will in turn, lead to their post-graduation success. Scholarships are presented to the most talented and gifted students. Today, students are under tremendous amounts of stress to succeed. Some parents believe that by placing very high expectations on children, they will achieve. However, lately, this philosophy has come under close scrutiny, and it is believed to cause emotional distress. Although the first technique yields impressive results, extreme pressures and expectations are ultimately detrimental to a child’s psychological well-being. High parental expectations can create excellent scholars and athletes. With sport specialization, talented athletes emerge with a drive from years of practice and hard work. In 2011, a study was conducted to determine the motivation behind sport participation (Caus). The experiment targets two subject groups: children with and without disabilities (Caus). The study reveals the correlation between the parental criteria and the child’s participation (Caus). When able bodied athletes complete a questionnaire concerning their aspirations, ego, and motivation, the perceived expectations of the parents are the key components in a child’s success (Caus). The subjects are motivated by prospect of pleasing their parents. In addition to gaining acceptance, the children are encouraged to participate in activities that are both physically (such as increasing cardiovascular strength) and psychologically rewarding (Caus). When kids contribute to a sport, they learn essential life skills including the...
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