Giving Compliment
Concept: Giving compliment
Concept defined: compliment is a message of praise, flattery or congratulations
(be real and be honest; compliment in moderation; be personal in your own feelings)
Description of the circumstance: On Sunday, I went to Macy’s at Micronesia Mall in Dededo to buy me a pair of shoes. At the Macy’s shoe department, some shoes were on the grown and messy. I was walking around the clearance sales rack I saw this lady she was trying some pumps shoes. I decided that this might be a good time to try new communication skills- giving compliment.
Example of how the skill was used: I said to the lady, “ that looks pretty on you” she smiled and she response “ its kind of pricey but I like them”. She was wearing the pair of the shoes walking around the rack. I said again” you should get that shoes it nice on you and matches with your dress”.
Describe the perceived effect: She responds with smile when I said it looks pretty and nice. She put on the shoes again and walk around the rack its like she was having a fashion show. Her mood changes and aggressive movements seemed to encourage her to buy the shoes.
Analysis of the reason the skill resulted in the effect: I think what the lady needed was someone to encourage her a good great compliment before buying the shoes. My insight is that giving a compliment at the right time can changes person’s attitude and enhances their self worth by making them feel good and well, it touches the core of that person is.
Concept defined: compliment is a message of praise, flattery or congratulations
(be real and be honest; compliment in moderation; be personal in your own feelings)
Description of the circumstance: On Sunday, I went to Macy’s at Micronesia Mall in Dededo to buy me a pair of shoes. At the Macy’s shoe department, some shoes were on the grown and messy. I was walking around the clearance sales rack I saw this lady she was trying some pumps shoes. I decided that this might be a good time to try new communication skills- giving compliment.
Example of how the skill was used: I said to the lady, “ that looks pretty on you” she smiled and she response “ its kind of pricey but I like them”. She was wearing the pair of the shoes walking around the rack. I said again” you should get that shoes it nice on you and matches with your dress”.
Describe the perceived effect: She responds with smile when I said it looks pretty and nice. She put on the shoes again and walk around the rack its like she was having a fashion show. Her mood changes and aggressive movements seemed to encourage her to buy the shoes.
Analysis of the reason the skill resulted in the effect: I think what the lady needed was someone to encourage her a good great compliment before buying the shoes. My insight is that giving a compliment at the right time can changes person’s attitude and enhances their self worth by making them feel good and well, it touches the core of that person is.