fear of been hurt

Men and women have different thoughts and feelings towards love. Generally women are always ready to take responsibilities of any relationships and ready to give commitment, but that’s not the case with men. When it comes to commitment men think to escape because they feel trapped with the thought of living with a woman for long time. I can’t blame men for that, maybe it is because they feel they are very strong and don’t need anyone in life but the fact is that men become frustrated if they are alone. Why most of the men are scared of commitment. Here I’m sharing a few common reasons that scare a man from commitment, though it changes from person to person, according to his past experiences. It’s a woman who can give that comfort to a man, and make him understand why commitment is important, and how it’s not so bad. But, first let’s talk about some of the reasoning behind men’s fear of commitment.
The fear of being hurt: Men feel that love hurts a lot and they don’t want to get hurt in love. They feel that woman will leave them and she would never be with them for long term. This feeling makes men think they should stay away from commitment and keep relationships moving so they don’t have any feelings of insecurity. Any habits we’ve long had that allow us to feel self-focused or self-contained start to fall by the wayside. We tend to believe that the more we care, the more we can get hurt.
The fear of not finding perfect mate: Men always want good women for long term relationship, who should be ready to change for him and meet his expectations. Sometimes this feeling becomes scary for guys when they keep searching for the perfect one and they don’t find her. They can never commit to a woman whom they don’t find to be perfect and in the search process men forgets that woman are human beings and she also may have negative points . The more we have, the more we have to lose. The more someone means to us, the more afraid we are of losing that