Buckman Family Subsystem Genogram
Gil, Karen, Kevin, Taylor and Justin Buckman analysis
The family chose is Gil, Karen, and their children Kevin, Taylor, and Justin they are a pretty normal down to earth family, with minor issues. The main issue is Gil and his neuroticism; he seems to have obsessive compulsive disorder, because what is happening is that it is affecting their oldest child Kevin the most, the other two are affected but not to the extent that Kevin is being affected. Karen is the more go with the flow parent; she is more laid back and takes one day at a time with her children. She and Gil see their son Kevin is having issues and want to help him but they do not know how to. Gil tries really hard to help Kevin but each try is unsuccessful. They do function pretty well as a family; they look to be a pretty normal family. Karen is the normal homemaker, Gil is the normal father who tries to do everything for his family, and each of the kids is functional at home, you can see how Kevin reacts in certain situations, the other two seem to be pretty well adjusted or oblivious to Kevin’s issues and treat him as siblings should.
When you see the rest of the larger family system in the movie they all have their own issues to deal with like you would see in any family. His sisters have their own issues with their individual family units, His sister Helen has two children she is trying to raise on her own because her husband left her and does not want anything to do with their two children, Her oldest Julie gets married to her boyfriend behind her mother’s back and the youngest Garry he has so issues that she tries to help him with but in the end he does not want her help, so she asks her daughters husband Tod if he would talk with her son since he is going through puberty, later you also find out the daughter is pregnant and the mother tries to save her daughters marriage, her son realizes that everything their mother does she does to make them happy. He then starts talking to her and coming out of his shell. The other sister Susan is having issues with her husband Nathan does not want to stray from his plan with their daughter and Sudan wants her daughter to be more like a normal child than a genius child. As the movie goes on she gets frustrated with her husband and she leaves because she is trying to make a point. Patty does not know how to interact with other children her age, and Susan wants to give her daughter more of a childhood than she has. Larry comes into the movie a little later he is the one Buckman that does not have his life together, he has a son that nobody in the family knew about not even his parents. He comes home to get his dad to help him with his gambling debts, he starts off lying to his dad Frank, but it doesn’t take his father to catch on to why Larry came home after three years. He wanted to help his son but when he offers his son help to pay off his gambling debt and try to get Larry on the right track. The end result is Larry decides to leave to attempt yet another business adventure and the Frank is very upset that his son does not accept his offer to help him. He then tells his son Larry; his wife Marilyn and he will keep his son Cool, the little boy comes to his grandfather and says my daddy is leaving immediately, and then he asks is my daddy coming back? Frank tells his grandson no, how would you like to stay here, and the little boy Cool says yes. For the most part the family as a whole gets along pretty well with the given family issues. They are all rather close with each other and you can tell there is a lot of love in the Buckman family. They do pull together as a family would in situations. Yes the family is a dysfunctional family, but they do rather well together as a family system. Larry has the trait of having a distant and poor relationship with his child. The distrust between siblings is not apparent in their offspring....
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