Family is a beautiful discovery of human evaluation and a prize given by the ancient people to the mankind. Living together is some thing special when the real sprits exist in the family. The Tamil proverb “ A good family is like un university” has a special meaning. The family university has been teaching number of subjects like friendship, relationship, fellowship, hospitality, Reception, Love, Confidence building, care & Share, Emotional adjustments etc. The parents and elders of the family and society are the teachers of this university. Newly married couple can learn a lot from these teachers. According to the western concept, Family is an Institution where as our Indian concept believes that family is a way through which every one can perform their Dharma.. Dharma is supreme and it is the path in which mankind can do their duty and attain the salvation. In modern society the basics of a family is questioned and there are numerous problems are aroused. The very basics of family system are jolted and Harmony of the family is disturbed. Few tips about the Harmony of the family are here by discussed.
HUSBAND AND WIFE:
What do you understand the meaning of Husband and Wife relation ship? Have you experienced the real sprit of this relationship? There is a story about it. Once a young man was working in a Bank loved a beautiful girl who is also working is his office. The love end up with marriage. With in few days of their marriage, little problems were started in their life. Due to misunderstanding the problems were grown up and quarrel become routine and some times manhandling would end up the day. Most of the days, there was no cooking in their house. He brought meals and Tiffin from hotel. After two years, his wife was reported that she was pregnant. During those days, he thought, “What is the meaning of husband and wife relationship?” Whether we really lioving together or merely existing together? The story concluded that if any once merely existing together means, their relationship is like a man and women, and living together means, their relationship is husband and wife. Existing together means to fill full the need of the physic and living together is for mind. Living together as husband and wife relationship is the first step towards the family harmony. Who is the most lovable person?:
During the training session, once asked, “Who is the most lovable person in human life?” Most of them listed as Mother, Father, Teacher, Children, and at last wife. From their reply wife was considered as last lovable person. Mankind is living for happiness. No one wants to live with full of worries and difficulties. Happiness is a state of mind. This has to the attained when the Body, Brain, and Mind will be in a Triangular state. In any relationship, no one can attain happiness except husband and wife. The needs of the brain and mind may be fulfilled by the mother, father, and others relations. But the husband and wife relationship can only meet all three needs of brain, Body and Mind. The union of all these three factors of human being attains the state as happiness. So most lovable relationship in human life is husband and wife. What is the beauty?
Many times we checked our beauty by seeing our face in the mirror. But have you understand the meaning of beauty? Beauty is not merely the external appearance. It is the natural state of mind and the real character and behavior of the individual. In any one relationship, the external beauty influences only 90 seconds, the existence of relationship rest with their noble behaviors and beautifulness of mind. So we need not worry about the external appearance and try to improve your internal thoughts and behaviors.
What is Family?
The word family has different meaning. One of the acronyms of family is formed like the following....