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too easy to believe the
other. For example, if they felt their friends closer and more understand, they can easily be in accordance with what is done by friends. They forget that the "friends sometimes can not eat friends." In this situation many young adults fall into the social ills.
Influence of Mass Media
The mass media also contribute to the occurrence of social problems among young adults today. Not everything that appears in the media were giving adverse impact. However, some programs and dramas that
featuring free mixing among teens, reality television programs, and the plans are purely entertainment influence teens
the bad thing. For example, the pattern of interactions of adolescents away from the values Oriental, dress, the irreverent lifestyle and the manner
west. There are also obscene and seductive are easily
market whether in print, CD or other media besides this
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In this case the family is also at times be a boost increasing social among adolescents. Walaunpun did not occur in all families, but families adopt too stifling or too giving freedom to the
adolescents, can be penyumpang the existence of this problem. They joined keluaraga the only life but not diperduli and not given the spiritual, awareness, values and religious enough. Family is too stifling the family adopt too close. Which means the family seems to have designate an applicable law or regulations must be followed by each family member without compromise. This condition can cause the soul so rebellious and if chance to get out of it they will do whatever it terminates in thinking without thinking. While the family is too give this freedom usually open at the extremes. In this family, not a
regulation or special resolution adopted. This situation is also not good because the teens need something that can be used as a guide to live their lives. Without guidance, yet they can through this life as best as possible easily lead to fall to a range of social problems now.
The family institution is important to help prevent teens from falling into the trap social ills. The most important importance is about religion. Is the basis of religion robust, teenagers will not simply fall on matters not
good. In this case the role of parents is very important, especially as a model to children. Busy is no excuse as a barrier to parents concerned with the case their children. Most importantly the parents know the role and practice time quality of their children. Parents should have time to communicate and find out about their children. In addition, parents who have children adolescents should be 'a friend' to them. By this the children will be more believe parents and make them as a reference when dealing with problems. When children talk about their problems, parents should focus. Do not speculate as bad or even
judge. Give time to discuss and find the best solution.
Parents are also encouraged to plan activities with the children and family members. For example, in the month of Ramadan, as far as possible all family members gather to breaking the fast or together to the mosque or the mosque for prayers Tarawih. Parents should also monitor the situation of children, can not 'just take for granted. They can not leave the children alone determines their lives. Children need guidance. In addition, parents need to know the kids friends their teens. If necessary, occasionally ask that the children brought friends their home to be identified with one of our children are friends. Parents should always pray that their children safe from things that are not desired. They must realize that prayer is very important for the welfare of parents living kids. IMPACT AND CHALLENGES OF COLLAPSE phenomenon PROBATION
Moral decadence among the youth of today will impact
is so large in the community. Youth is a key...