How it began?
The French started it; much of today’s formal etiquette originated in the French royal court during the 1600-1700’s. The nobles who lived at royal court did not work, and so they developed elaborate social customs mostly to avoid becoming bored. They drew up a list of proper social behaviour and called it etiquette. The word ‘Etiquette’ came from an old French word meaning ticket. This code of behaviour soon spread to other European courts and eventually was adopted by the upper classes throughout the Western world. Human Being is a social animal and it is really important for him to behave in an appropriate way. Etiquette refers to behaving in a socially responsible way. 1.2 Etiquettes Today
Since the 1960’s, manners have become much more relaxed. Etiquette today is based on treating everyone with the same degree of kindness and consideration, and it consists mostly of common sense. It is helpful to know some rules about how to behave in certain situations. They make life more comfortable for you and make you more self-confident in various social situations. Today, etiquette is not seen as the conventional code of behaviour and interaction within a household or society, nor is it limited to table manners and dinning etiquettes. Instead etiquette is seen as a qualifying characteristic in a person to be socially pleasing and is considered to be an important part of one’s personality as etiquettes reflect grooming and finesse. 1.3 Etiquettes
“Your manners are always under examination, and by committees little suspected, awarding or denying you very high prizes when you least think of it,” * Ralph Waldo Emerson
Etiquette in simpler words is defined as good behaviour which distinguishes human beings from animals. Etiquette is nothing but manners to be followed in a given cultural environment. Every culture has its own etiquette. But overall the etiquette is universal with certain characteristics and qualifications that run across all people like a common thread. There are many definitions for etiquette, though it can be simply refer to as good manners. And, Etiquette is a conventional performance in people’s daily life and social interaction. People can handle the measure that communicate with others correctly and deal the relationship among people well according to various kinds of rules of etiquette. If there were no these rules or principles of etiquette, people will lose their head in interpersonal activities, and maybe make funny jokes before the crowds. Therefore, we should get familiar with and master the etiquette can help people deal with affairs well and treat others properly. That is the good way of life.
2.0 Benefits of Etiquettes
Etiquettes will play a very important role when you enter into a new family after your marriage. When everyone is noticing every act of yours, it may become difficult to remain confident while interacting with family members. There can be moments of conflict or embarrassment when you fail to shoulder your responsibilities effectively. * Etiquette enables the individuals to earn respect and appreciation in the society. No one would feel like talking to a person who does not know how to speak or behave in the society. * Etiquette inculcates a feeling of trust and loyalty in the individuals. One becomes more responsible and mature. Etiquette helps individuals to value relationships. * Also, it develop skills which are respected and expected professional etiquette * Professional etiquette builds up leadership quality business and careers defines skills needed for exceptional service. * Without etiquette, you limit your potential, risk your mage, and jeopardize relationships that are fundamental to business’ success. Formerly perceived as soft skills, busy, results-oriented professionals have found that professional etiquette influences their success because it: * Differentiate them in competitive market