Escape the Friend Zone

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Escape the Friend Zone

Oh no! You are in love. But the object of your affection thinks of you as more of a brother or sister than anything else. What should you do? Maybe the following points will help you. -------------------------------------------------

Break the nice guy or sweet girl stereotype. Most guys and girls who find themselves in the friend zone are usually susceptible to many of the characteristics of the nice guy or sweet girl stereotype. Where you are romantically attracted to someone, you do not want to pressure them into a relationship. The trouble is, when you take other people's feelings more important than your own instead of finding that happy balance. -------------------------------------------------

Stop being needy. One of the reasons you might be interested in this person more than he is to you is because you are giving off signals that you really want to be in a relationship. You might be coming off as a little desperate, which is quite the attraction killer. Examine your own neediness. In one word, relax. Also, do not force yourself to reveal your hopes for intimacy, let your actions display your confidence. Your demeanor should speak for itself. -------------------------------------------------

Think about the difference between a friendship and a romantic relationship. Some people expect a boyfriend or girlfriend to play a particular role in their lives in order to physical attraction to emerge. The person who you want to be more than friends with probably makes a bigger distinction between "friend" and romantic partner than you do. Realize that many people (both male and female) expect to be courted in some way. Some people, for example, look for a romantic partner who can play more of a parental role than a friend could. Figure out what the person you are pining for wants to find in a boyfriend or girlfriend. Then decide whether you want to be that for them. -------------------------------------------------

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