Effects of Divorce on Children

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The effects of divorce

This paper is going to be about the various effects of divorce. I will look at three different ways that divorce effects the children. I will first look at the ways that divorce affects a students academic achievement. I will then look at the effects that divorce has on relationships with both parents and other people and lastly I will examine the emotional effects of divorce. The effects of divorce on children can change almost all aspects of a person's life including where they live, with whom they live with, their standard of living, their emotional happiness, their assets and liabilities, time spent with parent and other family, and so much more. A number of children have plenty of trouble in schools but it’s not all thanks to divorce. Some kids act wrong in school but that’s just a problem with the way the parent deals with their children. Children of divorce have a diminished ability to initiate or maintain a long-term relationship and/or to sustain a marriage in the future. There are some positive effects of divorce too but most of them are negative.

Academic achievement is one of the significant effects of divorce on children. Divorce interrupts stable monitoring, problem solving, and consistent discipline, and each of them contribute to failing at school and deviant peer association. [6] If the parent is too busy working or taking care of the house then she/he won’t be able to see what their kid is doing. Divorced parents tend to be less consistent, exercise less control, and do less monitoring over children. [3] Without the parents monitoring the kids may hang out with criminals and the parent won’t even become aware of it. Hanging out with awful people will in turn impact the kid’s performance in school. If the children obtain many liberties they might feel like they are in control of the parent. In a divorce children feel that they can do whatever they want because they feel that one parent is not enough to keep them in control.

In general most young people do not suffer long term consequences after their parents' divorce in terms of their academic accomplishments or vocational achievements. [10] Divorce does make younger children act negatively in school and that impacts their school performance but it’s only temporal. [2] The reason some kids do bad in school is because divorced parents usually don't do good in disciplining and supervising their children. Generally kids of a single parent have trouble respecting people in authority, setting and reaching their own goals, and accepting criticism from their teachers. [10] Kids have that way of thinking in school when there is little or no control or authority in their houses. Essentially the kids defy the teachers in school just like their parents at home. It’s logical that one parent can’t do the job of two parents but as long as they don’t neglect their children they can still do god in school. Although Divorce affects children’s academic achievements it doesn’t affect all children in the same way.

Each child is unique, so the short and long term functioning of the children after divorce varies widely. Divorce would have a more negative effect on children with high behavior problems than on those with low behavior problems. [9] If the kid was already a troublemaker and not doing well in school then the divorce would give him a better excuse to fail in school. Single parents can’t discipline their children as good as they would with their partners. Children do better in school when they have both of their parents because they provide consistent and coordinated co-parenting. Both of the parents can monitor their children and provide them with nurturance and discipline. They can also monitor who their children are hanging out with and keep them away from troublemakers. Behaviors are shaped by a set of effective parenting practices monitoring, appropriate discipline, positive involvement, skill encouragement, and...
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