Doing Gender

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"Doing Gender"

At dinner: I was out at dinner one night and I took sometime to start observing the different ways men and women "do gender". As men and women came into the restaurant I began to notice how different we walk, the women seem to walk with their legs much closer together with a dainty tippy-toe gait the men however walk with the legs further apart and much more of a slow dragging stroll. Watching the different groups of both sexes eating there were many similarities, the women have a better posture sitting up straight with legs crossed or legs closed together with knees touching. The men sit as if their shoulders are heavy with much of a slouch, feet apart and elbows on both sides of the table. As food was being served, I was trying to recognize what different things were being ordered. All the women surprisingly ordered the almost the same things water with a straw to drink, taking a drink very lightly holding the glass with just the thumb and two of the other fingers, a chicken salad and or regular green salad. I overheard one of the women ask for ‘light ranch' dressing instead of the regular ‘house ranch'. With the women more concerned about the weight factor of what's being eaten. The Men were being served more of a full course meal including meat and two sides items drinking either soda of some short or a beer. When they started eating the women took fewer bites but chewing it completely and carrying on more of the conversation being discussed at the table in a low alto voice.

The men consuming more portions of food at a time and responding to the women with a very quick "yes" or "uh huh". Just about all the women who I was watching got up several minutes after they were done eating and mirrored off to the restroom as the men stayed to take care of the bill. So as I was finishing my own dinner I started reflecting everything I just noticed I thought about the three different groups I observed and how closely all their behavior was almost...
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