Do You Agree of Arranged Marriage?

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Marriage is a legal bond between a man and a woman. To get married is not a small decision. Therefore, legally only adult man and woman can get married. Because they are more matured and they are not thinking purely out of love but out of something that’s bigger than that.. That is why, I disagree with the idea of an arranged marriage, the choice of a husband or wife that is made by parents or elders because, firstly it is us who is getting married and not our parents, secondly is because we are adults that can make our own choice and thirdly, a person can be a hypocrite in front of our parents.

The reason why I disagree with arranged marriage is because, it is us who is getting married. Why must our parents get in the way? The one who is going to live with them till death is us. To be with that person forever and after, one must be comfortable around them. To be with a person that we choose is a better idea because we know them better and much more importantly, it is not our parents who is going to get married with them. It is us.That is why, because it is us who are getting married so it is up to us to make our own choice.

Furthermore, I also disagree with the idea of arranged marriage because we are adults. And being an adult is the biggest reason why me must make our own choice. Until when must we depend on our parents choice? Being an adult teaches us to be more independent and can make our own choices. That is why we are different from adolescents. We must be brave to make decisions. Even if sometimes the choices that we made do not seem to go well, but that’s life. Life is about making mistakes and learning from it. Thus, as an adult, we must make our own choice especially when it comes to marriage.

Other than that, the reason why I disagree with arranged marriage is because people can be hypocrite. Why I stated this is because, when we did not know the person well enough, we tend to look only at the...
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