Divorce - Cause and Effect
Before a marriage is fully “matured” 3 out of 10 fail and resort in a divorce. No child want’s to hear the word divorce mentioned by their parents, little alone the other spouse. Many now a days seek divorce as an “easy way out,” given that they have an annulment. Some may even cheat the system and get married for the spouses money, title, or objects. The marriages that are there just for show, don’t tend to last as long and become unhappy. In a marriage anything can go wrong from bad communication, cheating, and abuse.
Fyodor Dostoyevsky, once a Russian novelist said, “much unhappiness come into the world because of bewilderment and things left unsaid.” The number one reason marriages end is because of the lack of communication in the relation, according to Huffington Post. There are five main instances where a lack of communication can affect the marriage. The first one, is hiding your feelings. If you're having a heated conversation with your spouse but keeping in feelings or problems then where is your relationship going to go? Oh I can help, nowhere. The next type is bodily or physical. Simply rolling your eyes, walking away from the conversation, shrugging your shoulder, or even the lack of eye contact can push someone away. A “win-lose attitude” is one of the most aggravating things for someone to do, personally. If someone always says, “it wasn’t me,” if they're judgemental or a very negative person it can agitate you and even bring you down. Lastly a lack of politeness can make someone feel underappreciated. If you continuously do something for someone and they correspond in a uncaring manner you will tend to feel over time like you don’t matter. The simple command, like “take the dog out,” can seem abrasive. They're no such thing as over kindness, if someone does something nice for you, you can just simply correspond with a “thank you.”
“Thank you honey,” any house wife, or husband would love to hear of their spouse. Just by keeping
Fyodor Dostoyevsky, once a Russian novelist said, “much unhappiness come into the world because of bewilderment and things left unsaid.” The number one reason marriages end is because of the lack of communication in the relation, according to Huffington Post. There are five main instances where a lack of communication can affect the marriage. The first one, is hiding your feelings. If you're having a heated conversation with your spouse but keeping in feelings or problems then where is your relationship going to go? Oh I can help, nowhere. The next type is bodily or physical. Simply rolling your eyes, walking away from the conversation, shrugging your shoulder, or even the lack of eye contact can push someone away. A “win-lose attitude” is one of the most aggravating things for someone to do, personally. If someone always says, “it wasn’t me,” if they're judgemental or a very negative person it can agitate you and even bring you down. Lastly a lack of politeness can make someone feel underappreciated. If you continuously do something for someone and they correspond in a uncaring manner you will tend to feel over time like you don’t matter. The simple command, like “take the dog out,” can seem abrasive. They're no such thing as over kindness, if someone does something nice for you, you can just simply correspond with a “thank you.”
“Thank you honey,” any house wife, or husband would love to hear of their spouse. Just by keeping