As we journey through life, who we are and where we belong must be constantly re-negotiated
Have you ever really felt like you feted in a group just because of who you are? No one ever gets accepted because of the person they really are because as people journey through life they have to constantly re-negotiate who they are and where they belong. People don’t know that it is others that affect who they are. If everyone started to hang around the good people then no one will be around the evil ones and they will eventually die out. People have an Identity for every occasion just like you would have a top for school, a top for work and a top for going out. What people do is use a different identity when at home, when at school, when at work or even when hanging out with different people. They do this to belong, to fit in with everyone around them, to be accepted by today’s modern society. If it wasn’t for society the world would be a far better place for everyone to live in there will be no individuals who would feel left out or alienated. If you knew that it was your best friend’s fault that you had a divorcé and the wife got left with everything and you got nothing, you would be very upset at this so called friend of yours, in truth this is what your friend really do to you, they break up your life from the inside, they change who you are, they make life a hell for you if don’t see it coming soon enough. Your friends are your worst enemy when it comes to being who you are. Sometimes it’s best to chose your friends wisely and the groups you hang around with even more so. What happens when no one hangs around with the bad crowd, eventually there will no longer be any bad crowds because everyone will with the good people and no one will be with the bad people. They will no longer have any followers, they will be the loners the will have no friends, they will be the outcasts. People would shun them they will no longer have any place in today’s society. They will...
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