A wedding is one of the most colourful and important ceremonies in all of Hinduism. Usually, Most Hindu marriages are arranged by the parents, although the children must also be happy with their chosen partner. During the ceremony marriage vows and promises are made around a sacred fire. The couple walk around the sacred fire four times. At the end of a Hindu wedding ceremony, the bride and groom take seven steps together around the sacred fire. These steps are the most significant action in a Hindu wedding. For each step they share a promise and a hope. Each promise or hope is about something they believe is really important and will help them have a happy marriage. The couple are blessed by the elders and the priest. Now the couple is bonded for life, their union sanctified. Overall, a marriage is considered as a rite of passage because a marriage makes a new family, marriage starts a brightening new life, marriage brings happiness to the new life, marriage…
Spouses in nations around the globe have hitched in wedding dresses of different hues and every shading has its own significance ("American Wedding Traditions and Customs"). Some have all inclusive importance purple and gold for eminence, white for virtue and honesty and dark for death and distress. American spouse generally wears a white wedding dress ("American Wedding Traditions and Customs"). Also, white wedding dress is regularly acknowledged convention in Europe. In Japan, the spouse additionally is wearing white-she wears a white kimono for her wedding…
Mann, Susan. “Grooming a Daughter for Marriage: Brides & Wives in the Mid-Qing Period.” In Chinese…
While Larson listing facts about examples that few Chinese women are eager to get married, she lost tract of what caused this social conundrum. The pressure from women’s family is the main reason that why many women are so anxious about getting married. At a certain age, their family member (usually the mother) starting to worry their children’s marriage, so they set up many blind dates for their daughters. For many times, without there acknowledge. While the parents getting aggressive, they will bring marriage as the topic for every conversation they can have. Family pressure aside, many indecent men in China’s society is another reason of what caused harsh marriage condition for women. Marrying to the wrong man will cause endless domestic issues, and a harmony…
Marriage in China has undergone change during country’s reform and opening period. The major change in the twentieth century is characterized by the change from traditional structures for Chinese marriage, such as the arranged marriage, to one where the freedom to choose one’s partner is respected. This evolved from the development of new rights for women. But in recent years, the concept of "leftover women” has been created by the state media and government in order to pressure women into marrying earlier. And it is a common phenomenon in current China family that parents are eager to let their daughters to get married the sooner the better, parents think if woman don’t get married before 25 or 26, their whole life will be unhappiness.…
2. It was customary for potential spouses not to meet before the wedding night, and marriages had to be arranged by fathers, mothers, and other relatives. These practices are changing slowly and unevenly, but the tendency is toward fewer close-cousin marriages and for the couple to communicate with each other before the wedding.…
Chinese governor used Confucian values to control whole society. Everyone should follow the unequal rules, especially women. It created lots of unhealthy situations in the society. People just focus on themselves. Women were treated as non human being because marriage was based on economic benefit. “love was considered to be only secondary, while the core relationship remained economic, and was thus controlled by capitalism.” 2 Women were not the first priority in a family but money was the only way to judge something. Woman’s marriage was the jetton for the family. Also, marriage in China are decided by matchmakers. Matchmakers provided the ideas that “marriage is determined by destiny.” It is this theory of predestination that gives rise to such extremely irrational practices as “marriages decided in the womb” and “choosing a partner in infancy.”3If marriage is not based on love, women is just a childbirth tool in a family. It will make the negative circulation because it emphasizes the male chauvinism again and…
In India, much as like the last area of the ceremony, is much, much more elaborate. For the bride, or the dulhan, a sari or a lehenga, which is highly ornate with gold and silver embroidery. The color of the sari or the lehenga is of great significance, and is different for different communities. The colors generally considered favorable for the occasion are: red, yellow, green, or white. Red is the most common and it symbolizes prosperity, fertility and saubhagya (marital bliss). She also wears a plethora of elaborate and beautiful pieces of jewelry made of gold and precious stones. Sometimes a veil is also worn, made to match her dress. Her groom wears a dhoti or a sherwani, which also has a lot of subtle but intricate detail and is usually a white, off-white, or beige color. In some cases he may also wear a turban and/or a sword.…
The strict moral codes of Chinese feudal society often forced women to marry men much older than themselves. However, Zhang chooses to allow the seductive and passionate freedom of women. Such as Jiu-er, to become “realized” in terms of the symbolic use of red to denote the environment in which she lives. Certainly, the illicit sexual encounter that Jiu-er experiences is not chosen, but she is fulfilled in not losing her virginity to the leprous old man that she has been forced to…
Also explained was the Chinese tradition of giving money to loved ones. The money had to be new straight from the bank with no rips, tears, or creases and was placed in a red envelope and given to those in the family. If there was a wedding in the Chinese culture this practice was done in a white envelope instead. Chen- Yu also explained that in Japanese and other Asian cultures a red envelope was given out at weddings because the white was used for…
Weddings: Bride covered in red veil – represent that the pair is not supposed to meet until wedding (arranged marriage).…
The groom will be accompanied by a male counterpart from the bride’s family, normally her brother to sit on a stage, elevated above the guests called the “Manavarai”. The wedding comprise of 5 main rituals and the most important is tying the “Thali’. “Thali” is prepared by the groom’s family. It is a gold necklace that symbolise eternal love in the presence of God. The priest consecrates the Thali and gives it to the groom, who’s ties it around the bride neck and become husband and wife. This ritual is the highlight of the wedding where it is done amidst a crescendo of music, chants and a shower of flowers from the…
Many Chinese families have the Chinese tradition held as a priority in their family. One of these practiced Chinese traditions is arranged marriages which are a way of parents not giving their daughters a chance to choose who their future husband will be. The idea of arranged marriages had been practiced in Kingston’s home, Kingston was a fourteen-year-old who had been away from her parents for many years training to become a woman warrior. The day when she had started her menstrual cycle she was not living with her parents. Those she had stayed with while training decided to console her they allowed her to look into a gourd for just that day;when she looked in the gourd she had seen that “[there] was a wedding. [Her] mother was taking to the hosts: ‘Thank you for taking our daughter. Wherever she is, she must be happy now. She will certainly come back if she was alive, and if she is a spirit, you have given her a descent line” (Kingston 31). The age of fourteen was not the youngest age an arranged marriage would be arranged in China, so many young Chinese girls have been deprived of the opportunity to choose the one they would willingly want to spend the rest of their lives with. Specifically, in one Chinese village, a village matchmaker had gone to a young girl’s family to find her, her future groom. Lindo, the young girl, knows others outside her walls or even country do have their chance of choosing who they will be spending their life with, but “This was not [her] case. Instead, the village matchmaker [went to her] family when [she] was just two years old” (Tan 50). Since many young females are forced into arranged marriages the young girls are taught by their mothers to learn…
Extravagant clothing, succulent victuals, exquisite flowers, spectacular photography and many other grand decorations are the foundation of a Hindu marriage. Hindu marriages, like most other cultural wedding ceremonies, are deeply concerned with their religious rituals and customs. Most ceremonies in the Hindu culture are family oriented with great emphasis on entertainment and inspiration. Also, off course, the amount of decorations and the extent to which the rituals are carried out depends greatly on the class of the families in society. Wealthier families are inclined to spend vast amounts of money into the wedding ceremony to make it extremely extravagant, whereas the lower class families tend to just complete the essential rituals that are part of the wedding. However, in both cases amusement and entertainment play a major role in carrying out the wedding ceremony. The Hindu wedding that I attended was a middle-upper class wedding in which both the bride and the groom’s families were of the same Hindu origin. In most Hindu cultures, it is crucial for the families of both the bride and the groom to be of the same stature. That, however, is changing with time. The overall wedding in the Hindu culture lasts from a couple of days to a week. There are a number of rituals that take place on each day and each ritual symbolizes a certain aspect of life. The wedding I attended was of a close friend’s sister. So, therefore, I experienced more rituals from the bride’s side. I also managed to have a fifteen minute conversation with the priest, who was present on the wedding day. This was mainly to gain an understanding of Hinduism and the significance of certain customs that took place. (ADD More)…
However, today people will no longer be as astonished if they encounter a non-virgin girl who has never been married. Actually, I have met several female friends who don’t even care about virginity and approve of cohabitation before marriage. Even the elder generation has changed their stereotype. As I mention above, my uncle and aunt didn’t fuss when their son shacked up with his girlfriend. It is undeniable that with women achieving a high status in China’s society, they are no longer judged mainly by their sexual feature----virginity, but rather their virtues and intellectuality.…