Causes of Conflict Between a Parent and Child

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Causes of Conflict between a Parent and Child
Parents can influence their children in an extremely powerful way. Growing up a child observes and learns by example. A child grows based on their environment and their genetic traits. This puts a lot of importance on how a person is raised and their relationship with their parents. The behavior of a parent can directly cause a child to act a certain way if they were raised in a single mother family, their parents were addicts or if they lived in an abusive household.

Being a single mother can have severe obstacles and cause great stress. The stress can come from divorce; the mother may also be going through custody battles due to that. The mother may not give the child as much attention because she is so focused on the situation. This may cause the child to act out in school or elsewhere to get the attention or affection he is not getting at home. But, it can also be the opposite way, the parent may give the child attention but since there is no father figure around the child may still act out, being disobedient and disrespectful to the mother. If the child is a female this causes her to seek males to fill the empty space of having a male figure in her life for that affection. This can allow her to be vulnerable to be taking advantage of. Most likely the mother disagrees with it but of course the daughter will continue to have relations with the guy until she learns for her self later in life.

Being the child of a parent who is an addict can also cause conflict because the child may become very depressed. The child has a high risk of doing the same thing because it is genetic yet also in their environment they are living in. There is no communication between the parent and child and there is also an extreme lack of parenting. The parent may never be home which causes the child to basically take on the responsibility of learning things on their own and taking care of their self. If the child is a male he...
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