Cause and Effects of Lying

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Cause and Effects of Lying

By | December 2001
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Cause and Effects of Lying
Can you remember the last time someone lied to you? Or how about the last time you lied to someone else? Did you ever stop and ask yourself why? There are so many different reasons that a person might lie. Maybe a lie about something to keep oneself out of trouble, or even a lie to impress other people. But either way there are always going to be serious consequences or effects of lying.

People lie everyday to, in someway or another, keep themselves out of trouble. Many teenagers will lie to their parents about what they are doing for the evening, how much of their homework they have done, or how that glass vase got broken while they were out of town. We even lie to our significant others about who that other boy was that called the house or what exactly we did with our friends last night. All anyone is trying to accomplish by this is to stay out of trouble when we know we've done wrong. But we never think of the effects of lying. Although we think we're being sly, parents are usually smarter than we give them credit for! And eventually our boyfriends and girlfriends will find out! Then the problem becomes the issue of trust. If you lie, there is no trust. That can be one of the serious consequences of lying.

How about lying to impress other people? More common in children and teenagers, we lie to make others think we're cool. And when you really think about it, that's the part that's not cool! Most young people care too much about what other kids think. Everyone always wants to fit in with the crowd so they lie about things to make them fit in. What happens when the plan backfires? The downside effect would be that once people know that you are constantly lying to them, they wouldn't think you're cool at all. So basically, lying to people to impress them will only leave them completely unimpressed.

There are many causes and effects of lying. No matter what your cause is for lying, whom you're lying to, or...